Those are the words that come to mind when I rehash the week. Trigg had his surgery on Monday. We thought we were smooth sailing. He went back about 8:30 and was done by 10:30. We had planned on going to a recovery room for about 2 hours. We had an appointment for Ivor in the cleft clinic and we let the nurse know. I think she became focused on getting us out of there in time and she let us go by about 12:45. All went well at the cleft clinic and Ivor was cleared to eat whatever he wants. YAY! This child will probably forever refuse applesauce, and he was pretty excited to get something crunchy to eat.
We got on the road by 3:00. We have a six hour drive from the hospital to our little town. As we were climbing the pass (big huge mountain) Trigg's pain was escalating. It was then that hit me, he was still in a dry diaper. I called the surgeon and he was sure they would not have discharged him without a wet diaper. I called the O.R. and had them look in the chart and my fears were confirmed.
Needless to say we went strait to our local ER and Trigg's bladder was near bursting. They had to drain it which was totally traumatic, after a two our wait to see a doctor. Let's just say, our small town ER needs a lesson or two in treating kids.
These boys continue to teach me how fragile and resilient kids are, all at the same time. They are simply amazing in how well they bounce back. Through all the pain and agony of these surgeries and the changes they have been through, God still continues to be faithful and bless us. It is a gift, a sweet, precious gift we have been given simply in watching them interact. Ivor knew Trigg was down, and he acted accordingly. He would feed him, literally feed him, and Trigg would eat, even when he did not feel like it. He would randomly go to him and kiss him. He would bring him drinks. They are TWO. Toddlers generally don't show empathy till the age of three. They help each other up when they fall. Again, we praise God for reuniting these identical twin boys. He knew, HE knew how badly they needed to be together. I am so grateful He chose us to witness their love.